You may have left the relationship, created distance or simply decided to keep going while assuring others that you're okay because explaining everything that happened can feel draining, impossible or you worry you'll be a burden. You can find yourself second-guessing your memories, decisions and instincts. Questioning whether you overreacted or if things were even as bad as you thought. These can be very common feelings after being in a relationship with a person who has many narcissistic traits.
Narcissistic abuse can gradually make it difficult to trust what you feel and perceive. Coercive control can make explaining yourself, managing someone else's emotions or questioning your own needs feel normalised. Process based psychotherapy helps you to develop a relationship with yourself that’s no longer built around doubt, fear or someone else's approval. And as you reconnect with what you perception, feelings and needs, you can begin to trust yourself again and enjoy relationships where you aren’t required to abandon yourself to belong.
You're not alone, and you don't have to figure this out on your own. Take your first step to becoming a more confident and connected you today.